>>124
こんな感じです？

struct base_ {
virtual base_* clone (void *p) = 0;
virtual ~base_() {};
};

template <typename F>
struct derived_ : base_ {
F f_;
derived_(F f) : f_{ std::move(f) } {}
base_* clone (void *p_buf){
return new(reinterpret_cast<derived_<F>*>(p_buf))(f_);
}
};

A(A& src) {
p_ = src.clone((void*)buf);
};